The Worry Jar
The Worry Jar is a technique for people, especially children, who suffer from worry and anxiety. It helps kids identify, name and release their worries.
- Container to Hold Worries
- Paper
- Scissors
- Pen
Cut paper into small strips.
Write your worries down on the little pieces of paper.
Fold up the pieces of paper containing your worries, and put them into a jar or container. (This is your Worry Jar.)
Come back later and look through your worries.(Don't come back 10 minutes later. I'm talking more like a week or a month later, depending on the nature of your worries.) Chances are there will be several slips of paper containing worries that either never happened or worked themselves out.You can rip these up and throw them away! Repeat with any new worries as they come up.
- You can use any type of container as a worry jar. Consider a glass jar, wooden box, basket, mug, or other special container.
- You can embellish your worry jar by adding a ribbon or twine bow around the neck of a jar, or painting a wooden box. You could use Mod Podge to cover a box or jar with photos.
- Use the urgency of your worries to dictate how long you wait before you come back to revisit your worries. If your current anxiety triggers have an upcoming deadline (like a test, meeting, or race) you can revisit those worries after that deadline has passed. Otherwise, give your worries more time before you revisit them.