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The Worry Jar

The Worry Jar is a technique for people, especially children, who suffer from worry and anxiety. It helps kids identify, name and release their worries.

Materials

  • Container to Hold Worries
  • Paper
  • Scissors
  • Pen

Instructions

  • Cut paper into small strips.
  • Write your worries down on the little pieces of paper.
  • Fold up the pieces of paper containing your worries, and put them into a jar or container. (This is your Worry Jar.)
  • Come back later and look through your worries.
    (Don't come back 10 minutes later. I'm talking more like a week or a month later, depending on the nature of your worries.)
  • Chances are there will be several slips of paper containing worries that either never happened or worked themselves out.
    You can rip these up and throw them away!
  • Repeat with any new worries as they come up.

Notes

  • You can use any type of container as a worry jar. Consider a glass jar, wooden box, basket, mug, or other special container.
  • You can embellish your worry jar by adding a ribbon or twine bow around the neck of a jar, or painting a wooden box. You could use Mod Podge to cover a box or jar with photos.
  • Use the urgency of your worries to dictate how long you wait before you come back to revisit your worries. If your current anxiety triggers have an upcoming deadline (like a test, meeting, or race) you can revisit those worries after that deadline has passed. Otherwise, give your worries more time before you revisit them.